When it comes to modeling it is like dating. You will have those assignments that you hate, the ones you want to have forever, and the ones who you wished had never happened. You have to set your standards pretty high. You have to know what you want and go after it. You have to stand on your own two feet. Never backing down and never giving into something that is not giving you that warm and fuzzy feeling.

Today I found myself wondering about my modeling. I wondered on whether this was really work being in. Whether or not the images, relationships, rapport was worth it. I am in the middle on this, I have been doing this for such a long time. People are really just mean. The only one who cares about what happens really is you. You have to figure out whether it is more headache than reward. But at least I won’t let anyone define who I am, what I stand for, or how I work my modeling business. I tell you – don’t let anyone define you. EVER.